Advice column
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Posted:Aug 13, 2012 10:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2012 3:19 pm 5861 Views
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Hello everyone,
I am a writer that has experience hosting on several websites that are no longer online. One of my favorite places to host was thrive online, Oprah's self-help website. When Oprah closed her site down because it wasn't making any money, AOL grabbed it up. Now that AOL closed down its community leader program (fancy name for hosting a chat), the members all had to find somewhere else to go. I miss the interactions I had with the people, gay, straight, Bi and Hetero. I have always enjoyed chatting with people and giving a soft shoulder for someone to cry on when needed. Since I no longer host chats, I have been searching for another place to just hang out. I am hoping to have found a new home here on GayFriendFinder.com.
As for advice, any of you out there that want to give some advice maybe you can answer my question....
Why do you think that most gay men equate sex with love? Is it genetics or just overactive hormones? Love to hear from you on this. I have my own opinions, but am always open to hearing others.
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Starting a blog
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Posted:Aug 13, 2012 10:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2012 9:19 am 6037 Views
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I felt like it was time for me to start a blog. As a writer, I think this will give me a good outlet instead of writing in a journal.
How many people are surprised to learn that even though the name is GayFRIENDfinder, there are an awful lot of men looking for sex instead?
I guess one of the things that has always frustrated me about being gay is that there seems to be a one track mind when it comes to what a real relationship is. When I look for a friend, I mean a friend. I don't mean someone with whom I will cheat on my spouse of 13 years with. I would enjoy being able to talk to other men that are gay without having to worry if they are going to jump me.. or worse yet.. jump my partner. I am hoping that there are a few gay men out there that are not screaming queens, who like to do outdoor things such as fishing, camping, playing frisbee golf, or any other non-sexual activities.
While I am not the best looking pup on the block, I do not think I am scary looking. The question becomes then, why do people care what you look like when it comes to being a friend? If we're friends, doesn't that kind of eliminate at least partially the appearance aspect? I am not talking about the actions portion of appearance here, just the physical. I can understand not wanting to go certain places with a gay man that is flamboyantly gay.
Anyway, I welcome any feedback. I enjoyed writing this.
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