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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gay FriendFinder.
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Why? - 4/14/2007

Why is it that youll always find a younger Asian guy with an older Anglo Guy but not the other way around?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Opinion? - 4/8/2007

Is giving an opinion such a crime? Seems like it in these Posting sections

7 response(s), 5 votes
Trying to understand - 4/5/2007

WHAT IS IT WITH THIS SITE THAT THERE IS SO MUCH HATEAND LOT OF BACKSTABING AND LOT OF LYING .ME I'M NEW AT THIS AND REALY DON'T UNDERSTAND IT AS TO WHY SO MUCH ON THIS SITE AND NOT ON THE OTHER SITES HERE.FROM MEFOR

2 response(s), 3 votes
MrCofWi 66 M
1  question
Bi curious? - 3/27/2007

OK ... so if somebody is a total virgin ... let's say the star quarterback of the HS football team ... and all he fantasizes and gets excited about are the young ladies on the cheer leading squad ... would that make him straight-curious? After all, he's never acted on his straight interests. It's just something he thinks about ... a lot.
If that does make him ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
A Question of Education - 3/16/2007

Being University educated is not everything in the world. The more people read books the sillier they come across. Life experience is an Education in itself.

2 response(s), 7 votes
Happy Mardi Gras - 3/6/2007

Hi Everyone.
Last Weekend we had the Mardi Gras here in Sydney, Australia. What a top night it was. Over half a million spectators and almost 100 floats. Its as big as Christmas Day here in Sydney.
What Gay Celebrations do you have in your City? Interested to Know!!

12 response(s), 3 votes
Divorce - 3/6/2007

At the moment theres all the controversy about Gay Marriages

Ok thats great. What about Divorces, they do happen and can really damage an individual. Its all Ok to push for the marriages but what do you do when your faced with divorce? Havent we learned anything from Heterosexuals?

6 response(s), 4 votes
Community? - 3/6/2007

I dont feel that Im really part of what a lot of people would classify as a Gay Community. Im a Human being and am part of the human race. I could never understand this sort of Classification.

7 response(s), 3 votes
nudecowboy 68 M
1  question
is mast.rbation addicting? - 2/17/2007

How much is too much? I mean I take care of my responsibilies, hold down a job, have had a couple relationships too. But I can't wait until I can mast.rbate again on a daily basis. Do any of you feel the same way? I've always thought this was normal behavior. What do you think?

6 response(s), 20 votes
Delicate Problem - 1/26/2007

The last time after my boyfriend fu[kcq]ked me in the \bass\b I couldn't sh[i!1l]t for a week.Would it help if I told him not to stick his big dick so far into my \bass\b? Also does AIDS stand for anal Intercourse Death Sentence?

3 response(s), 12 votes
officeboy007 65 M
1  question
Why is this site pants? - 1/13/2007

There is zero activity & seldom anyone online

2 response(s), 7 votes
disrespect - 1/12/2007

Why is it that Gay Guys are so willing to impress women, copy their behaviours, worship them, yet Gay men treat each other with such disrespect and vileness ???

9 response(s), 5 votes
Little Britain - 1/3/2007

Has anybody seen a Sketch comedy called "Little Britain" Absolutely hilarious it is. Ive bought all 3 seasons plus the live Theatrical show on DVD. Id have to say its the funniest thing apart from all the boring Reality shows on TV at the moment!!

2 response(s), 3 votes
Ziegfried 36 M
1  question
How attractive do you think I am? Just C. - 1/1/2007

Ziegfried...

3 response(s), 10 votes
too restrictive - 12/23/2006

A comment was mentioned earlier on which I found to be very interesting. It was about Mankind and how weve become very separated and extremely materialistic over hundreds of years of civilization.
Were our caveman ancestors more free and non restricted!
Are we imprisoned in this modern world of ours?
I think so!! How about you?

1 response(s), 6 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
What are you looking for.... - 12/21/2006

When it comes to a relationship, what are you looking for? A friend with benefits, a f@#k buddy, a lover, a spouse, something else entirely? What is your ideal of a relationship?

1 response(s), 5 votes
A Question Of Spirituality - 12/13/2006

In the Gay Community I find that lots of men, and women for that matter think they are totally Unbreakable and live purely on Spending, Over indulgence, smoking, drinking etc. What about knowing your true self and being intrigued by the afterlife? In Buddhism, the emphasis is on Meditation and Relaxation. Spirituality is lacking in the Gay Community, I mean theres community church but thats ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Gay Discrimination. - 12/10/2006

We try so hard to end it in society, we seek to be seen as equals in the eyes of the law and to be treated with fairness and respect. But all too often members of our community are among the worst offenders, whether it's not liking lesbians or queens or what have you. My question is this, how can we expect society to treat us with respect if we can't treat each other in the same way?

9 response(s), 14 votes
Vagueness - 12/5/2006

Guys dont you hate it when you meet up with a guy or potentually want a relationship with him, all you get is vagueness. You dont get an exact Yes or No. I find this a problem in the Gay community. What do you think guys?

2 response(s), 4 votes
All Moral & upright - 12/3/2006

Dont you hate it when guys make themselves out to be all moral and upright, when at the end of the day we all think about it and do it. More like Im a better gay than you are syndrome.

4 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
movie review.....part one - 11/15/2006

What's the best gay themed movie you've ever seen and why do you like it?

14 response(s), 4 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Has anyone actually had any luck on this site? - 11/15/2006

I joined this site about a month ago and the total number of times my profile has been viewed since I signed up: 0. Which I don't find unusual because the last time I checked I was the only 'member' from the entire state of Kansas to sign on in the last month. I was wondering if my experience is unique or if someone has actually made some sort of connection on here????

5 response(s), 6 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
How do you feel about open relationships? - 11/9/2006

Can they work or are they a disaster waiting to happen? What's your opinion and why do you feel that way?

2 response(s), 9 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
How do you feel about public displays of affection? - 11/9/2006

If you're dating someone or in a relationship what is acceptable and what is a line you would not cross?

5 response(s), 7 votes
Great web site !!!! - 11/7/2006

Gayfriendfinder.com has been an excellent way for me to get my point across and the chatrooms have been awesome. I am very confident in what I beleive in and like to tell it how it is, no mucking around.

2 response(s), 9 votes
drugs? No Thanks! - 11/5/2006

Whenever I pick up a Gay Newspaper, Im sick of the huge focus that drugs have in the Gay Community. Why take it at all? cant we be just naturally happy in life without any questions? What about us that have never and never will take drugs in our lifetimes, does anybody care about us?

3 response(s), 5 votes
Were not all Hairdressers !!! - 11/2/2006

Dont you hate it how society suddenly stereotypes you as being an effeminite just because your gay,
Were not all hairdressers and designers,
The TV show Queer Eye For The Straight Guy has pretty much given society the impression that thats all we are.
Theres nothing worse when somebody tells you what you should or should not wear.
Especially here in ...

9 response(s), 7 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Closet cases...... - 10/27/2006

I know each of you can come up with individualized excuses as to why you can't be open about your identity, what justification would you offer for everyone else to use? (I should let you know I'm not looking for advice, I'm here to take people on about their answers to this one.)

8 response(s), 9 votes
Have U seduced your relative? - 10/24/2006

Just wondering if anybody out there has had it off/ had a liaison with a relative?
Ive been having it off with my cousin for years, hes a year older th

4 response(s), 1 vote
Whats Your Experiences? - 10/22/2006

Ive been going out on the gay scene on and off for the past 13 years in various cities Ive lived in Australia, in my time. All places are the same. Tacky music, lots of stares and overly camp voices. All guys Ive picked up in my life have been chance encounters. Ive never ever found my "Type" in a Gay Bar or venue. Guys that approach me that I dont want I give them a direct "NO!" If thats ...

8 response(s), 7 votes