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advent43 67 M
4  questions
Getting more gay by the day... - 11/12/2019

I've been bisexual for 40 years or so. I've loved and enjoyed sexual relations with women, but more and more I find sex with women to be less enjoyable. On the other hand sex with men was nearly always satisfying, but intimacy with a guy was not for me. <br><br> Lately however I feel more turned on by the thought of male male intimacy, deep kissing feeling and holding with a ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
The Beast within - 11/12/2019

Frustrated here as I've not had any luck finding a lover. I've written a concise profile and included my recent photos. I've been exceedingly careful, actually dormant from sexual contact for several years and was recently tested for HIV, which came as no surprise, was negative. <br><br> Despite the fact that I've stated my desire for a monogamous relationship with a ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
Bath houses still exist??? - 9/27/2019

I was recently chatting with a guy on here like me can not host. So I suggested we meet for coffee regardless and that if we were compatible we could figure something . I even suggested the local ABS, but my surprise he indicated a bath house not far from where he lives. I was surprised because I thought that in the wake of STD awareness, they'd pretty much all closed down. ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
why doesn't GFF allow me to post risque' photos? - 9/27/2019

I attempted post some of my cock shots on here, but they were refused and deleted. I didn't attempt make them my profile photo, so what gives?

0 response(s), 0 votes
DragonMoonHP 52 M
1  question
The Youth of today's LGBT - 6/16/2016

Is it just me, or does the younger gay and lesbian women seem to forget that it was us older folks that marched and worked so hard for them to have the right to sit in front of their electronics and down talk us for being too old?

Now don't get me wrong, it's not all of today's younger generation. However the cliche goes, 1 bad apple spoils the barrel. Maybe if some of these youngsters ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
sexslave64 72 M
1  question
Real Meets - 8/13/2015

I live in South Bend, IN. and would like to know if there are any guys in the area who are into chubbies for occasional hook-ups.

0 response(s), 2 votes
adusei 34 M
1  question
i cant write any message to any one - 4/28/2015

pls i cant message any one

2 response(s), 2 votes
do gay people vanish once they reach 65? - 1/28/2015

where are older gay people

4 response(s), 4 votes
size - 8/29/2012

does a mans get smaller with age, or would it be caused by a medical problem ?

1 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
IT's Your Turn To Write, Don't U Want a Turn ? - 6/4/2012

Hey Guys, It's Your Turn To Share and Write, Don't You Have a Question You Like To Ask ????

3 response(s), 4 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
ARE YOU READY 4 THE HOLIDAY ? - 5/25/2012

I HOPE YOU ALL ARE READY FOR THE HOLIDAY, JUST BE GOOD TO ONE ANOTHER, GIVE THANKS TO THE MEANING OF THE DAY, THANKS AND PRAYERS, ( HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY )

1 response(s), 4 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Did You Know That There are Two FriendFinders - 5/18/2012

I Learn from another Gay Site that There Was Two GayFriendFinders, This One another Own By This Same Company Called Discreet Gay Dating, There are tons of People There all The Time Not Like This Very Slow Site, But They Have Women on This Site as Well, Men Looking For Woman or Couples, and Also Gay Men, Which I don't understand cause it's called Discreet Gay Dating, What does Gay Dating have to ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Soon it will Be Summer, Are U Ready 4 it ? - 5/3/2012

Today is Really Muggy, Rainy, Sunny and Very Humid, and it's only 70 Degrees, a Crazy Weather Day, Seem Like This Year Is Going Super Fast, I'm Not a Super Hot Summer Person, I Love it when it's about 70 and 75, But Most People Don't Understand it gets in the 100's here in Fargo, Yes We Have Some Cold Winters, But This Year it was a very Warm Fall and Winter, Do You Like It Warm, Hot, Mild, Cold, ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Profile Is Pending Review ! - 4/24/2012

I Don't Understand GayFriendFinder, They seem to want and need more active and paying members, but somehow they leave you Hanging for no reason other, they don't seem to care, I updated My Profile 3 days ago, it's still listed as ( PROFILE IS PENDING REVIEW ) Who Running This Ship ?, Cause it Seems to be Sinking Fast !

4 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Doesn't anyone use this Anymore ? - 4/15/2012

I seen the last time anyone posted a Question, it was 12-29-11, Doesn't anyone use this anymore or want share what's on their mind ? Remember it takes two or more to relate to one another !

2 response(s), 9 votes
Iceheart 41 M
1  question
Moving to Georgia - 10/20/2011

Can anyone give me any advice about the gay culture in Georgia?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Slow??????? - 1/5/2011

Today is Jan 5, 11. The last question posted was Dec 20th. Don't anyone was this page? Seems with all the men on here you would have a lot of questions. What's wrong???

4 response(s), 9 votes
pig4useanytime 60 M
1  question
PNP - 12/23/2010

I have seen it listed many times but, sorry to say, I haven't a clue as to what it means. please help!

2 response(s), 5 votes
adamLoveOldMan
1  question
why young Boy love Old Man !!! I Love Old Man SO Much But i Cant Know Why!! - 7/26/2010

Young Boy Love Old Man Maybe Because they have more experience and more... and more ... and more.... Oh !! loooooool Nice Old Man I Cant Make Sex without Old Man^__^ Really Fuck all Sex But GOod Sex with Old Man

5 response(s), 22 votes
life4537 50 M
1  question
when you feel love for a man? - 5/2/2010

many men want to have sex with men, sex is an instinct, we all have, but it is no coincidence that many are expressing the need to have sex without feeling "less men" express aggression and a misunderstood role "macho" but still looking men, no doubt believe that the most wonderful thing that can happen is to feel love for a man, I'm biseexual, I was deeply in love with two women in different ...

7 response(s), 28 votes
tristanubod 41 M
1  question
My first experience in sex when i was 12 years old been moslested with my cousin - 3/6/2010

Do you think im i right that experience and trumas make me now bisexual guy.Bec im attracted to a men like me dont choose any races or colors aslong love mein real.

7 response(s), 20 votes
my wish before i get married - 10/10/2009

i have always wanted a group oral orgy so i m asking all you guys anyone intersted i need 5 guys nad lots of cum 44 verse ct here wellhung full lips long thick tounge any takers plz bring doctors papers stating dd free

1 response(s), 15 votes
DOCMIKE16 69 M
2  questions
Were Are All The Bears? - 2/26/2009

I'm a bear looking to make contact with others I have received only one reply. Please let me know if I'm wrong that bears like bears or should I open myself up to others? Are there regular size guys out there that Like chubbier guys? And is this the right site for this kind of thing?

2 response(s), 7 votes
DOCMIKE16 69 M
2  questions
WHAT DO YOU LIKE - 2/26/2009

I was wondering when you do a search/browse for someone, how important is it to you to see a picture? and dose having pictures with the profile get you to read that profile? Also what type of photos do you like to see in the profiles?

5 response(s), 10 votes
bobby8998 60 M
1  question
on date - 6/2/2008

when you are no date and are just start to get in to it he says are cut or no cut me i like both whet wood you do ok by bobby8998

2 response(s), 4 votes
Ollies up from Hybernation - 5/30/2008

After being away from this site for a while its still so dead!! Remember my "Out There!" Comments! At least they got attention and kept this section going! Whats wrong with some guys here, Cat got your tongue????

1 response(s), 3 votes
hornyboy121 34 M
1  question
am i being noticed? - 4/28/2008

..just wanted to get more adds

4 response(s), 19 votes
Please Explain???? - 3/30/2008

I dont like the term used to describe a young person, "TWINK" Where did that word originate from? I hear a lot of people use that word these days. What Gives?

1 response(s), 2 votes
touch47 76 M
1  question
older for younger - 2/14/2008

Why is it so hard to get to know a younger guy. Just because I am 60 I am not dead I love my sex and enjoy very much.

14 response(s), 24 votes
Closets - 2/5/2008

I beleive that Guys who remain in the closet make things harder for all Gay people. If more guys were out! wed have it much easier.

6 response(s), 12 votes