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moving to San Diego and need advise 10/5/2011
tell me about bars that are hiring bartenders and house's
for rent and friends with no drama!
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How can I tell her I'm gay? 2/14/2010
I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we are all
doing fine with our relationships. She keeps telling me
that she loved me very much and she wants me to his husband
and spend the rest of her life with me...The only problem
is that I am gay, and she doesn't know about it. I have
been with guys, had sex with few of them. I am good at hiding
u know...I only did kiss and snog my ...
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I'm so over the denial... 3/28/2008
I've come to the excedingly disturbing realization
that i-as most of us queers tend to be-am an expert at denial.
I suppose, in my case, "expert" doesn't
even begin to describe the skills i was seemingly endowed
with at birth to manipulate my thinking, and supress all
the painful playgroud teasing that, enevitably, en-debted
me hundreds of dollars to my shrink. This epiphany has allowed
me to ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
1 Votes
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Afghanistan anyone? 1/8/2008
I am always looking for friends...  searches for Afghanistan area dont turn much over... any
ideas?
0 Comments, 9 Views,
1 Votes
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We need more photos ! 5/17/2007
We need more people to put their pictures with their profiles!
I just checked out the profiles that are most compatible
to me and I was down to number 23 before the first photo. I'm
not going to waste my time writing to someone who, for whatever
reason, can't come up with one picture. I can understand it in people who just joined, but some of
you have been here for years! The standard member ...
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the art of edging 2/25/2007
I am a great fan of "edging". Making a session
of last for several hours. The result is a
very powerful orgasm and a great amount of semen is produced.
This has proven to be somewhat difficult for some. Granted
it is hard to stop what your doing momentaraly when your
at the brink of orgasm. The benifits are well worth it if
you can do this. You might
consider that when you ejaculate the feeling ...
1 Comments, 99 Views,
5 Votes
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watersports 2/25/2007
I want to promote safe watersports. A lot of gays don't
quite understand this activity, which is fine if it truely
turns you off. However, I'll wager to say most have
never experienced it and the image in the mind is somewhat
crude. I believe it is a very close sharing by two men. To
hold each other close and feel it run over the body is a very
stimulating experience and tends to bond you ...
1 Comments, 64 Views,
1 Votes
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All Moral and upright! 10/25/2006
Why is it that lots of gay guys suck cock and then build this
wall in front of them and make themselves out to be such moral
and upright citizens. "Oh Im such a moral Queer"
and the rest of the gays are just useless queens, thats the
typical attitude out there
6 Comments, 91 Views,
5 Votes
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Things That I Learn So Far 10 8/14/2006
"Luxury is building tomorrows, living todays, and
cherishing yesterdays."
"The hands that help are holier than the lips that
pray."
"Spend not, where you may save; spare not, where you
must spend."
"A wise man turns chance into good fortune."
"Dreams has as much influence as actions."
0 Comments, 33 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Things that I Learn So Far 9 8/14/2006
"Nothing is impossible for the man who doesn't
have to do it himself."
"Success is never final. Failure is never fatal.
It's courage that counts."
"From the errors of others a wise man corrects his
own."
"He who has health has hope, and he who has hope has
everything."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."
0 Comments, 19 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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What I Learn So Far 8 8/14/2006
"Life's under no obligation to give us what we
expect."
"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's
courage."
"To escape criticism - do nothing, say nothing, be
nothing."
"A wise man will make more opportunites than he finds."
"Conscience warns us before it reproaches us."
0 Comments, 18 Views,
2 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 7 8/14/2006
"A good reputation is more valuable than money."
"Blessed are they who expect nothing, for they shall
not be disappointed."
"Life is no bed of roses."
"You never know a man until you live with him."
"Life is what we make it, always has been, always will
be."
0 Comments, 13 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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What I Learn So Far 6 8/14/2006
"The best things in life are free."
"You never miss the water till the well runs dry."
"Discretion is the better part of valor."
"Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."
"There's no rule without an exception."
0 Comments, 17 Views,
3 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 5 8/14/2006
"The most important things in life aren't things."
"You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories."
"Live so that your friends can defend you but never
have to."
"There are no shortcuts to any place worth giving."
"If you wait, all that happens is that you get older."
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 4 8/14/2006
"Life cannot go on without much forgetting."
"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing."
"The best way to escape from a problem is to solve it."
"Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody
is watching."
"Trust yourself. You know more than you think you
do."
0 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 3 8/14/2006
"Patience is a virtue that carries a lot of wait."
"He who starts many things finishes nothing."
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."
"God's best gift to us is not things, but opportunities."
"Gratitude is the conscience of memory."
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 2 8/14/2006
"The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to
overlook."
"To be happy, we must not be too concerned with others."
"Definiteness of purpose is the starting point of
all achievement."
"Decision and perseverance are the noblest qualities
of man."
"Humility is to make the right estimate of yourself."
0 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
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What I Learn So Far 1 8/14/2006
"We must accept finite disappointment, but we must
never lose infinite hope."
"Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough
to win."
"We write write our own destiny. We become what we
do."
"You have to stand for something or you'll fall
for anything."
"Life is short, and it's up to you to make it sweet."
3 Comments, 22 Views,
4 Votes
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MANGA BOYS 6/21/2006
Manga Boys is the refreshing personal vision of young Japanese
artist Kinu Sekiushi. His twentysomethingish boys seem
to my eye to be an almost molecular fusion of European and
Asian physical types set in an un-named tropical paradise,
such as Hawaii or Fiji.
Stylistically slanted blue eyes on elongated Caucasian
faces, long-legged European bodies completely bare of
typical body hair, ...
0 Comments, 100 Views,
8 Votes
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ADVENTURES OF A JOE BOY! 6/21/2006
Joe Boy Adventures is the first installment in a series
of soft-core gay male fantasy comics. Almost like a G-rated
cartoon version of that cable TV icon of gay culture, QueerAsFolk.
There are four five-page stories, and seven four-page
scenarios with titles like School Daze, The Outfielder
and Beach Bummed. Every drawing is clean-cut, youth oriented
and thoroughly wholesome while still ...
0 Comments, 64 Views,
8 Votes
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MORE BEAR COOKING 6/19/2006
More Bear Cooking is a sequel to the original Bear Cookin’
Cookbook.
If you have a short attention span then this book is for you!
No recipe is longer than a postcard.
The recipes were collected more for shock value (with names
like White Trash Stash, Porky’s Corn Bread and Cheese Crud)
than for nutrition, but that said there are several recipes
that might brighten a dark ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
3 Votes
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Being Queer in Small Towns 5/14/2006
I'm fine, thanks for asking. Except that I've
moved back to my home town after living in major urban centres
for half my life. Needless to say there's a bit of a culture
shock moving from a city of five million to fifty thousand
- and not just from a queer perspective. I mean, there's
nowhere to go for a pizza or mango shake at two in the morning.
If the statistics are correct, there would ...
1 Comments, 129 Views,
7 Votes
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Online dating. 4/11/2006
Hi all. I love this form of introduction, the whole online
experience. I have had alot of contact, but, as one would
expect, fewer actual "dates". I'm not
complaining at all, and though there seems to be plenty
of guys to date, it looks like it's about a seven to one
ratio of interest (winks, messages etc.) to actual "date".
For me anyway. No, I don't actually see all the fellas
that ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
2 Votes
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Reminders 3/8/2006
REMiNDERS F0R TH0SE iN L0VE AND F0R TH0SE WH0 WiLL BE iN L0VE
S0MEDAY:
(applies also to married couples)
1. Never try to change your loved one to suit your own taste.
It defeats the purpose of falling in love with him/her for
what he really is.
2. More often than not, it is THE EX that couples often fight
about. Try not to. In the first place, both of you know very ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
1 Votes
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Quote 3/8/2006
The most important thing is that you loved and at one time
you were trully loved. It's true that sometimes love
diminishes with time but then there is always someone out
there who is willing to give you the love that you so deserve.
If ever that person didn't come at least you have good
memories of the person or persons who have loved you at one
time or the other. So don't be afraid to fall ...
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The Missing 10% 3/7/2006
Something to reflect on.....
Sometime in life we are all looking for the missing 10% ..
life is
never
perfect and there's no such thing as 100% .. Most of
all, we are far
from
perfect too !!
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't
have.
"Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's
not her Wynona
Rider
features that ...
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Attitude Is Everything 3/7/2006
Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in
a good mood and always has something positive to say. When
someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If
I were any better, I would be twins!"
He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling
the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
1 Votes
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Failure Is Never Fatal 3/7/2006
FAILURE IS NEVER FINAL
Fear not that you might fail…Fear rather that you might
never succeed if you never dare to try.
Fear not that you might make a mistake believing in your
dream…Fear rather that if you don’t go for it you might stand
before God and He’ll tell you that you could have succeeded
if you’d had more faith.
Fear ...
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0 Votes
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Online Friends or More 10/25/2005
I like the idea of maybe meeting nice guys for friendships
or other things. No bar situation or loud noise to deal with.
Gives you a chance to get to know each other somewhat, before
you decide on maybe meeting in public sometime down the
road when you both feel comfortable.
<br>
You find all kinds of people out there, some can hold intelligent/funny
conversations and are ...
1 Comments, 98 Views,
7 Votes
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What Floor Are You On?? 9/28/2005
Do you remember older buildings with elevators that didn't
have digital readouts indicating which floor the elevator
was on but rather having a half moon dial with a pointer,
like a hand on a clock? Think of sexuality in this respect.
Sexuality has different levels (or floors): We are not
just gay, bisexual or straight. Think of the first floor
as straight. Then in the center of the dial is ...
2 Comments, 117 Views,
5 Votes
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My Love letter to All of you! 6/13/2005
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.
But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.
In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won
or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go! You know you really love someone when
you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means
you're not a part of it. ...
0 Comments, 52 Views,
2 Votes
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My Opinion... 5/10/2005
No man or woman is worth your tears.
The only one who is, will never make
you cry.
If you love someone, put their name in
a circle, instead of a heart.
<br>
Hearts can break, but circles go on
forever.
Everyone hears what you say. Friends
listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't .
<br>
<br>
If all my friends were to jump ...
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... 5/10/2005
x.. .s.T.a.Y._.h.A.p.i._.o.W.e.Y.z. ..x
<br>
<br>
~…tOo oFtEn wE UnDerEstImaTe tHe
pOweR oF a tOucH, A sMile, a kInd
wOrd, a LiStEniNg eAr, aN hOnEst
cOmpLimEnt, oR tHe sMaLLeSt aCt
oF cAriNg, oL Of wHiCh hAvE tHe
pOteNtiaL tO tUrN a LifE aRoUnd…~
<br>
<br>
~…NeVeR tAke sOmE1 4 gRaNted,
eSp tHe pErsOn cLoSesT 2 yEr ...
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~ He Sees ~ 5/10/2005
Feeling as if her heart would break,
Stinging words, they had lashed out.
The tears she held, so deep within,
Revealed her anguish and doubt.
<br>
They cut as if a two-edged sword.
She fought the emotions within.
But, in the recesses of her mind,
Words echoed time and again.
<br>
<br>
In the stillness of the night,
She knelt to voice her plea.
...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
1 Votes
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Thank you for your Friendship... 5/10/2005
Thank you for your friendship and your
love.
<br>
However life may turn, this gift will be
<br>
<br>
A mountain that has made my river bend,
<br>
<br>
Nor will it flow the same way to the sea.
<br>
<br>
Knowing you is something I'm made of.
<br>
<br>
Years will not this part of me remove.
<br>
...
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:*":..:*":..:*":..:*":..:* ":..:*":.. 5/10/2005
I'll listen when you need to talk,
I'll wipe away your tears,
I'll share your worries when they
come,
I'll help you face your fears.
<br>
You're not alone, for I'm still here...
I'll go that extra mile.
And when your grief is easier,
I'll help you learn to smile!
 ":..":..":..":..
":..":..
tnx for havin' me here!
God bless!
<br>
...
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A Friend... 5/10/2005
(A)ccepts you as you are
( elieves in "you" (C)alls you just to say "HI" (D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
( nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
( oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
( ffers support
(P)icks ...
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Flame the Bad Memories 4/2/2005
Often we are haunted by things from our past. We may bore
our friends or family by rehashing the same event over and
over. We seem never to get over it and go beyond it to your
future.
<br>
There is one way to put it in your past. You have to write it
down. Your must state what happened. State how it affected
you and how it hurts you now. Tell it like you are talking
to ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
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Is he Mr. Right? 3/31/2005
I've been managing people for over 14 years and I've
really become a great judge of character. A lot of guys can
talk the talk, but can they walk the talk too? Keep an eye
out for any patterns of trust, respect and honesty beging
broken. A cheat, thief and a liar can not be perfect all the
time. Trust your instincts and don't let your love
blind you to the truth; don't settle for ...
1 Comments, 120 Views,
5 Votes
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Lets get involved 3/9/2005
I have noticed that people are reading the articles that
I am and others are writing for you to read but that you are
not getting involved much and voting or adding comments
to these atricles as you are able to do. Also there could
be a lot more of you that are joining this site that you could
also write some articles yourself. These articles are
your way of expressing how you feell and to ...
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5 Votes
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lets keep thing current here 2/16/2005
I have noticed that many of the articles here have been carried
over from a long time before this was a gay mens site. Some
of them are about men and some are not totally. Some have
some very good advice and some do not but maybe it is also
good to have the ones from before posted here so others can
go back and see what was said before the site was formulated.
What do you all think, lets ...
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Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path 2/2/2005
Advice for Youth Starting on Thier Career Path
Fri Aug 20 2004 02:29
<br>
I can tell from your high sense of Justice and Idealism that
you'll be called to much greater things.
Do the small things well and greater things will be asked
of you.
<br>
May the Peace of Jah and Assurance in your chosen Tao manifest
itself to you as you seek the fullfillment of your ...
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Growing up gay but hiding it 1/28/2005
I have enjoyed the company of males all my life, but when
I was younger it was not as it is now where being gay is a lot
more commonplace. In my younger days it was unheard of to
love a man. I spent my life in denial, meeting women, marrying
them and having . I do not ever regret having my
as they are two of the best in the world today,
both very commited to their partners and their , ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
13 Votes
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Don't be loose 6/11/2004
One thing in a relationship is to be honest as much as you
like the person so not be easy to fall into bed the old fasion
values still work get to know someone then deside how you
feel about them date go out have a blast don't just fall
into bed
0 Comments, 121 Views,
4 Votes
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Well He/She Dumped You ! What Are you gonna do ? 1/3/1999
Well from my personal experience i just have to say that it ain't very easy to get over it, If it was your first love it
would be deveastating. So you might be thinking that i make making problems more difficult. But hey if you wanna over come this you must come to the root of the problem.
So how to over come your past memories ? SIMPLE you just have to out do her/him. Have a new fashion ...
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