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Closets - 8/23/2008

I beleive that Guys who remain in the closet make things harder for all Gay people. If more guys were out! wed have it much easier.

6 response(s), 12 votes
john2494 73 M
1  question
In or out of the closet - 8/11/2008

In some countries or communities many gays are still keep themselves in the closet, while others out.What factors influence these pointsf one's own, family, community, and/or country.How about you or your experiences. ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
Ollies up from Hybernation - 8/5/2008

After being away from this site for a while its still so dead!! Remember my "Out There!" Comments! At least they got attention and kept this section going! Whats wrong with some guys here, Cat got your tongue????

1 response(s), 3 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Nigerian Scam?? - 5/26/2008

Hi guys,

Now I'm getting winks from what seems to be Hot looking young studs from Nigeria and 1 from Rumania.

I'm gussing that these "young Men" are scammers. What with the reputation of scamming Nigeria has. Now maybe Rumainia.

Yep, I'm Very cautious and "paranoid" about gift hunks.

1 response(s), 6 votes
Why - 5/26/2008

When I discovered I liked men too, I had sex with my best friend. We tried everything, but everytime he penetrated me it hurt. Is there any thing that can eliminate that problem or help me looser? I need help please. I want 2 enjoy him.

3 response(s), 11 votes
Dont understand the fascination? - 5/26/2008

I find Tattoos, body pearcings a real turn off. For younger Guys I can understand but seeing it on a lot of over 40s is quite revolting. Its so Peter Pan syndrome

5 response(s), 14 votes
Good Guys Left? - 5/26/2008

Yes is there any good guys left.Me still looking and cann't say i can fine ..So i thought i would ask and see if and were to look and get some help ?So feel free to tell me what i'm doing wrong >

5 response(s), 10 votes
I miss Myrtle Beach sometimes... - 5/26/2008

I've lived in MB a few years of my life, and one of the best things was the porno stores there. You could "preview" a movie and a dude would come in and blow you. It was great, and I did it more often than not while I was drunk.

I live in Greenville, SC, right now and am not finding the same kinda joints around here. I really don't give a shit if you're old or anything, I just like ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
jim696998 80 M
1  question
Am I wrong to want committment? - 5/12/2008

For years I have been trying to find the right man to share my life with and so far I have come close but still no wedding band. I am going to continue as long as I can but maybe someone has some advice on this subject

2 response(s), 3 votes
Age of Consent - 3/12/2008

There is always the question of how young it is to experiment with a person of your own Gender. What is the ideal age of consent? What is the age of consent in your part of the world? or teenagers will "Do it" anyway regardless of laws so its not really an issue. What do you think?

5 response(s), 8 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
What Happened to Manners? - 1/9/2008

One of the main reasons we are all here on this site is to meet and make friends with like minded guys.If we get to gether and take the relationship to another level, that's great, but getting there is a problem.

A lot of guys say "email me" or similar to the effect that they want to meet people and are standard members. As far as I know, standard members can reply to mails recieved. ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Is it me or... - 1/4/2008

As a new member here, I have noticed that compared to the brother site, Outpersonals, there seem to be more people who have posted no photos of any kind here.

Also, I noticed that there is a very high % of guys who have not checked in for "over 3 months"

Has anyone else noticed? Or is it just me??

1 response(s), 8 votes
Trying to understand - 1/2/2008

WHAT IS IT WITH THIS SITE THAT THERE IS SO MUCH HATEAND LOT OF BACKSTABING AND LOT OF LYING .ME I'M NEW AT THIS AND REALY DON'T UNDERSTAND IT AS TO WHY SO MUCH ON THIS SITE AND NOT ON THE OTHER SITES HERE.FROM MEFOR

2 response(s), 3 votes
What is it that attracts you to a man? - 12/31/2007

What attracts you to a man? A nice chiesseled jaw? Colour of hair or eyes? Muscles, boyish looks or charm, perhaps even an older man. Whats the first attribute you notice?

6 response(s), 9 votes
A Question of Nationality. - 12/23/2007

When your attracted to a Guy, does nationality or skin colour matter or not? If so, what do u like?

5 response(s), 9 votes
bluehawk000 40 M
1  question
I WAS CONFUSE??? - 12/13/2007

As i remembered what have happened last month, someone wants to meet me, he told me he likes me so much, he loves me, though he never meet me in persons. we just chat for how many days. That time he decided to fly to philippines to meet me.AFTER on we meet then when he meets me, ohhh we talk know each other, and someone happens to us..to be frank we had sex that time. 2 weeks after i just ...

3 response(s), 16 votes
The first time you stepped into the scene! - 12/8/2007

When you stepped into a Gay venue e.g. Bar, Club, Cafe, shop etc. For the very first time, How did you feel? Were you, Nervous, excited, Scared, surprised?

2 response(s), 8 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
love has no gender - 12/8/2007

WE PEOPLE ARE FREE TO LOVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE LOVE ITSELF IS SOMEWHERE AND CAN BE FOUND TO ANYWHERE AS LONG AS YOU MEET THE PERSON YOU INSPIRED AND YOU FEEL YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH.

DON'T FEEL WORRIEDNESS ABOUT LOVE BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE POWER TO LOVE SOMEONE. LOVE HAS NO GENDER AS I BELIEVE. SO YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE LOVE FOR AND YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE YOUR LIFE ...

3 response(s), 14 votes
Delicate Problem - 11/29/2007

The last time after my boyfriend fu[kcq]ked me in the \bass\b I couldn't sh[i!1l]t for a week.Would it help if I told him not to stick his big dick so far into my \bass\b? Also does AIDS stand for anal Intercourse Death Sentence?

3 response(s), 12 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
I WANT YOUR OPINION, REACITONS AND YOUR SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW - 11/29/2007

HELLO TO EVERYONE OUT THERE. I REALLY WANT YOU SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW ABOUT MY QUESTION. WHY SHOULD I FOR MORE THAN A YEARS AND I AM ALMOST IN 20 YEARS OLD, I NEVER HAVE EXPERIENCE ABOUT HAVING MY LIFE PARTNER EVER SINCE BEFORE. AM I FORBIDDEN TO THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. SOME SAYS THAT ITS VERY IMPOSSIBLE THAT I NEVER EXPEREINCE YET AND HAVE IT IN MY WHOLE LIFE. I SAID, YES ITS TRUE. I NEVER ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
Holiday Hot Spots! - 11/28/2007

Have you been to a really nice Holiday destination recently, any remote Tropical Island, Romancing in Paris or trecking around Asia. Were these places Gay friendly or rather Homophobic towards you, maybe they were plain rude. Tell us about your adventures

2 response(s), 3 votes
Global Warming? - 11/7/2007

The causes of Global warming are Heterosexuals Breeding and bringing more and more into this world. Its not Car Exhaust fumes we have to worry about!!

2 response(s), 8 votes
nudecowboy 68 M
1  question
is mast.rbation addicting? - 9/23/2007

How much is too much? I mean I take care of my responsibilies, hold down a job, have had a couple relationships too. But I can't wait until I can mast.rbate again on a daily basis. Do any of you feel the same way? I've always thought this was normal behavior. What do you think?

6 response(s), 20 votes
Older? - 9/23/2007

I find older gay men real irritating in clubs, especially when they try to sleaze onto younger guys. The older guys always complain about being invisible in the Club scene. Really Dinosaurs are extinct!!!!!!

10 response(s), 15 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
why - 8/5/2007

how did you all decided you were gay.

2 response(s), 7 votes
I think....... - 7/24/2007

I think Global Warming and Terrorism are nothing but Marketing tools created by western governments.

What do u think!

3 response(s), 6 votes
Hi - 7/24/2007

I know this isn't a question, but I just wanted to state that I just added my photo.

3 response(s), 2 votes
Thanks GFF - 7/23/2007

Thanx Gayfriendfinder. Its nice to be one of Most Respected Respondents. Its good to be recognised for my Informative Articles !! Cheers

3 response(s), 5 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
what - 7/17/2007

what really makes you gay, if you like to get ordont mind ot get suck but a guy is that really gay?

0 response(s), 1 vote
I'm confused - 7/13/2007

Why aren't any of you cute, sexy men posting photos? I'm not just talking about your penises, (although I'd like to browse through them also), but of your faces? Is the stigma that bad against us?

4 response(s), 2 votes