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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gay FriendFinder.
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It Takes Two !! - 7/9/2007

It takes two Hetrosexuals to create One Homosexual. There isnt only one of us in the world, but a few million. Enough to Populate a City as big, if not bigger than New York.

Theres Food for Thought

3 response(s), 6 votes
A Question of Education (Part 2) - 6/9/2007

Universally, Gay men are known to be much smarter and high in intellegance,

Why is it that 90% of Prison Populations are made up of Homosexual men, and the most drug users in the world are Homosexual men?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Divorce - 5/24/2007

At the moment theres all the controversy about Gay Marriages

Ok thats great. What about Divorces, they do happen and can really damage an individual. Its all Ok to push for the marriages but what do you do when your faced with divorce? Havent we learned anything from Heterosexuals?

6 response(s), 4 votes
Opinion? - 5/16/2007

Is giving an opinion such a crime? Seems like it in these Posting sections

7 response(s), 5 votes
Liberation - 5/9/2007

When you have too much Liberation and freedom, there ends up being a decline in decency in society. First it was womens lib, the gay lib which was ok but its now gone too far and ruins our reputation, not to mention puts too much demands on the individual. Thats where an increase in Suicides takes place

8 response(s), 8 votes
swpa41 55 M
1  question
How can we wake up GayFF - 5/6/2007

Hey guy I was just wondering is there something we can do to liven up this forum a little. I mean there, are times when a week goes by and nobody post anything.

Don’t know how many on this site are on Outpersonal also, the same forum there is used so much you need to check it twice a day sometimes.

Now I hope this site does not get that busy, but please.

Listen I ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
Great web site !!!! - 5/5/2007

Gayfriendfinder.com has been an excellent way for me to get my point across and the chatrooms have been awesome. I am very confident in what I beleive in and like to tell it how it is, no mucking around.

2 response(s), 9 votes
HIV+ - 5/4/2007

If your about to go to bed with a guy and then he tells you he is HIV+, what would you do?

If your friend told you he is HIV+ would you still be friends? What would your reaction be?

2 response(s), 6 votes
Why? - 5/1/2007

Why is it that youll always find a younger Asian guy with an older Anglo Guy but not the other way around?

0 response(s), 3 votes
A Question of Education - 4/14/2007

Being University educated is not everything in the world. The more people read books the sillier they come across. Life experience is an Education in itself.

2 response(s), 7 votes
Community? - 4/7/2007

I dont feel that Im really part of what a lot of people would classify as a Gay Community. Im a Human being and am part of the human race. I could never understand this sort of Classification.

7 response(s), 3 votes
Happy Mardi Gras - 4/6/2007

Hi Everyone.
Last Weekend we had the Mardi Gras here in Sydney, Australia. What a top night it was. Over half a million spectators and almost 100 floats. Its as big as Christmas Day here in Sydney.
What Gay Celebrations do you have in your City? Interested to Know!!

12 response(s), 3 votes
MrCofWi 66 M
1  question
Bi curious? - 4/4/2007

OK ... so if somebody is a total virgin ... let's say the star quarterback of the HS football team ... and all he fantasizes and gets excited about are the young ladies on the cheer leading squad ... would that make him straight-curious? After all, he's never acted on his straight interests. It's just something he thinks about ... a lot.
If that does make him ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
why do some people laugh at others - 3/27/2007

sometimes when im with someone new i have this problem of either climaxing really fast or once in a while thing dont stand up to the task, if you know what i mean. Now i have been with some who exploded really fast, within a couple of minutes, that was fine for me, as they finished me off and we both we satisified. however, there have been times when it happened to me and the other party ...

5 response(s), 17 votes
Have U seduced your relative? - 3/27/2007

Just wondering if anybody out there has had it off/ had a liaison with a relative?
Ive been having it off with my cousin for years, hes a year older th

4 response(s), 1 vote
up4it4 53 M
1  question
you are very good looking guy i like you - 3/27/2007

hi would you send me a message for some reaso I can not email you though find you very attractive. I am trainee Doctor. I know Older than you but you do have a lovely face and I might b making fool of myself

3 response(s), 19 votes
disrespect - 2/7/2007

Why is it that Gay Guys are so willing to impress women, copy their behaviours, worship them, yet Gay men treat each other with such disrespect and vileness ???

9 response(s), 5 votes
Vagueness - 1/25/2007

Guys dont you hate it when you meet up with a guy or potentually want a relationship with him, all you get is vagueness. You dont get an exact Yes or No. I find this a problem in the Gay community. What do you think guys?

2 response(s), 4 votes
what is cheating really? - 1/23/2007

I've been in a relationship with the same guy for over 3 years, but I have a tendency to give and receive anonymous oral sex with other men. Since I don't have any type of relations with these guys, it doesn't really click in my head that I'm cheating. I've been thinking alot about this and wonder... Am I a cheater even though it's just head?

3 response(s), 16 votes
Little Britain - 1/16/2007

Has anybody seen a Sketch comedy called "Little Britain" Absolutely hilarious it is. Ive bought all 3 seasons plus the live Theatrical show on DVD. Id have to say its the funniest thing apart from all the boring Reality shows on TV at the moment!!

2 response(s), 3 votes
too restrictive - 1/15/2007

A comment was mentioned earlier on which I found to be very interesting. It was about Mankind and how weve become very separated and extremely materialistic over hundreds of years of civilization.
Were our caveman ancestors more free and non restricted!
Are we imprisoned in this modern world of ours?
I think so!! How about you?

1 response(s), 6 votes
A Question Of Spirituality - 1/15/2007

In the Gay Community I find that lots of men, and women for that matter think they are totally Unbreakable and live purely on Spending, Over indulgence, smoking, drinking etc. What about knowing your true self and being intrigued by the afterlife? In Buddhism, the emphasis is on Meditation and Relaxation. Spirituality is lacking in the Gay Community, I mean theres community church but thats ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Gay Discrimination. - 1/15/2007

We try so hard to end it in society, we seek to be seen as equals in the eyes of the law and to be treated with fairness and respect. But all too often members of our community are among the worst offenders, whether it's not liking lesbians or queens or what have you. My question is this, how can we expect society to treat us with respect if we can't treat each other in the same way?

9 response(s), 14 votes
Ziegfried 36 M
1  question
How attractive do you think I am? Just C. - 1/7/2007

Ziegfried...

3 response(s), 10 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
What are you looking for.... - 1/4/2007

When it comes to a relationship, what are you looking for? A friend with benefits, a f@#k buddy, a lover, a spouse, something else entirely? What is your ideal of a relationship?

1 response(s), 5 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
How do you feel about open relationships? - 12/20/2006

Can they work or are they a disaster waiting to happen? What's your opinion and why do you feel that way?

2 response(s), 9 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
How do you feel about public displays of affection? - 12/20/2006

If you're dating someone or in a relationship what is acceptable and what is a line you would not cross?

5 response(s), 7 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Has anyone actually had any luck on this site? - 12/20/2006

I joined this site about a month ago and the total number of times my profile has been viewed since I signed up: 0. Which I don't find unusual because the last time I checked I was the only 'member' from the entire state of Kansas to sign on in the last month. I was wondering if my experience is unique or if someone has actually made some sort of connection on here????

5 response(s), 6 votes
All Moral & upright - 12/19/2006

Dont you hate it when guys make themselves out to be all moral and upright, when at the end of the day we all think about it and do it. More like Im a better gay than you are syndrome.

4 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
movie review.....part one - 12/15/2006

What's the best gay themed movie you've ever seen and why do you like it?

14 response(s), 4 votes