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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gay FriendFinder.
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Whats Your Experiences? - 12/14/2006

Ive been going out on the gay scene on and off for the past 13 years in various cities Ive lived in Australia, in my time. All places are the same. Tacky music, lots of stares and overly camp voices. All guys Ive picked up in my life have been chance encounters. Ive never ever found my "Type" in a Gay Bar or venue. Guys that approach me that I dont want I give them a direct "NO!" If thats ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
Gay Marriage! - 12/4/2006

Im interested to know peoples general opinions on Gay Marriage. If you and your man were together for a period of time would you consider marriage, do u think marriage is outdated perhaps? Just curious !!

9 response(s), 11 votes
Were not all Hairdressers !!! - 12/4/2006

Dont you hate it how society suddenly stereotypes you as being an effeminite just because your gay,
Were not all hairdressers and designers,
The TV show Queer Eye For The Straight Guy has pretty much given society the impression that thats all we are.
Theres nothing worse when somebody tells you what you should or should not wear.
Especially here in ...

9 response(s), 7 votes
Gay scene culture - 11/10/2006

I find that when I go out to the gay scene that majority of guys are after anything, particularly the older men. Personally Im very fussy and particular about my men, why cant guys set some standards out there, esp you older men.

18 response(s), 10 votes
drugs? No Thanks! - 11/8/2006

Whenever I pick up a Gay Newspaper, Im sick of the huge focus that drugs have in the Gay Community. Why take it at all? cant we be just naturally happy in life without any questions? What about us that have never and never will take drugs in our lifetimes, does anybody care about us?

3 response(s), 5 votes
amaninsalina 61 M
7  questions
Closet cases...... - 10/29/2006

I know each of you can come up with individualized excuses as to why you can't be open about your identity, what justification would you offer for everyone else to use? (I should let you know I'm not looking for advice, I'm here to take people on about their answers to this one.)

8 response(s), 9 votes
how many guys like wearing spandex ? - 10/14/2006

like to hear your comments guys

3 response(s), 7 votes
THIS IS FOR she_male24 - 10/11/2006

Hi! I'm davidg3 (my handle). I tried to respond thru your email. You said it's she_male28, right? Well, I keep on getting failure delivery in my email. I'm kinda new with this friendfinder thing, so I just thought of sending you a wink and using this option. I can see from the picture you posted that you're quite a "looker". And I have to be honest with you. Hope you don't ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
Friends Finder or \bsexo?\b Finder ? - 10/4/2006

I thought that this was a place to hopefully meet new "Friends" . Why does it seem so many are preoccupied with finding \bsexo?\b instead?

3 response(s), 11 votes
DO YOU PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT (?) - 10/4/2006

COME - ON GUYS, LETS BE HONEST.? HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S THAT ARE PROFILED ON THIS SITE, LOVE TO SUCK cock.!(?) OK, A LOT OF YOU DO. NOW HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S PROFILED ON THIS SITE - *REALLY* ARE MASTERS AT THEIR CRAFT. REALLY HAVE THE *IRON LUNG* STAMINA AND TECHNIQUE THAT CAN MAKE A GUY HAVE TO BUCKLE HIS SEAT BELT - BECAUSE THIS RIDE IS GOING TO TAKE HIM TO ANOTHER STRATOSPHERE. HOW ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
problem in bed - 10/4/2006

How do you handle a problem that sometimes happens? Once in a while, i find that my manhood does not stand up to the task at hand, or mouth depending on the situation. Most of the time it has worked out because i was with someone very caring and they handled it well and made me feel okay about it. But there are those out there that end up laughing because i could not get it up. I have ...

3 response(s), 15 votes
ooty 55 M
1  question
why white guy say asian guy easy to pick up? - 10/4/2006

becouse asian guy always go to the white guy first and offer then self to the white guy

4 response(s), 17 votes
Royce4 56 M
1  question
Heat/Love Bites - 10/4/2006

So I go out the other night to meet a friend at a bar & he blows me off. Anyway, this hot Egyptian guy keeps checking me out, so I am getting rather turned on. We had a drink together….turns out he’s married. Long story short we go back to my apt and do some heavy petting ‒ no sex, . Had an amazing orgasm though ‒ felt like the power of 4. This morning I wake ...

3 response(s), 11 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Headache headache - 10/4/2006

I just arrived Africa, here condition very was really backward, nearly did not have the network, also did not have the gay bar, how could I find other homosexuality?

2 response(s), 5 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Why am I sure to like the black? - 10/1/2006

I like the black very much, in particular to their strong body, thick penis

2 response(s), 5 votes
lovableboy 37 M
1  question
where is my true love????????? - 8/31/2006

im looking for a true friend and maybe my first lover ( or maybe my darling ) when i loved u . Now come here and oick me <br> up

2 response(s), 14 votes
quite18 39 M
1  question
Why Can't we all just get along? - 8/27/2006

Why do we always have to fight with one another, Can't we just get along. After all christmas is just around the corner. So before you go taking the last can of green beans out of the old ladys basket right next too you remember Its christmas time. Get along with others this season.

1 response(s), 1 vote
How much am i accepted? - 7/4/2006

I dont know. It seems so hard sometimes. Theres not much difference from gay and lesbian yet i feel like because im a lesbian, its harder for people to accept me.

2 response(s), 18 votes
question about nothing - 6/20/2006

What's goin on with everybody else?

1 response(s), 8 votes
little_cutie2 37 M
2  questions
Does first appearance matter or is it the second ? - 6/20/2006

Your ideal apperance for your first date would be explain as ... exciting or something that was free... which one would you chose first or second

1 response(s), 10 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Please view my profile - 6/18/2006

I've had a number of messages sent to me in the couple months I've been on this site, but have had no people who have viewed my profile. I'm trying to figure out how someone can send me a message without viewing my profile.

2 response(s), 17 votes
danivon 45 M
3  questions
Why do i always seem to fall for people i know i cant be with? - 6/12/2006

I have got a friend who is absoloutly lovely he is kind, generous, loving just a wonderful person. we are very close and spend quite alot of time together i could really see myself being very very happy with him bar one thing, he's straight why does this always happen to me??? <br> <br> Dani x

7 response(s), 16 votes
age? - 5/23/2006

is it wrong to have a 42 years b/f when i'm 29?

2 response(s), 12 votes
adventurous3434 46 M
1  question
Bi Men - 4/27/2006

How did you first realise you were bi? Was it a certain event in your life that triggered the thought process? With me I was touched up by an older guy when I was 14 and it turned me on but didn't really understand the feelings I was having. I knew I wasn't gay but I knew I wanted to experiment with men. It wasn't until I met my wife that I actually spoke about it (the first person I ...

1 response(s), 22 votes
wildman391000 61 M
1  question
lookin g for love , wildman 39 - 4/12/2006

iv been on all theys set here and still cant fine no one to love me here , iam a nice man here , who is just looking for love , so how do you fine love here , some one till me here or fine me man iam here all most 40 still ante got no one in my life here ,

0 response(s), 6 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Does it work for you? - 3/30/2006

Does this site work for you? I'm a Siler member, and I've complained for months that the "who's viewing me" link does not work for me. I've gotten a number of messages, but not one profile has shown up when I click that link. How can someone send me a message, and not view my profile? After months, the site finally sent me a test profile, and told me they viewed my profile, see my other ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
salacioussirens 46 M
1  question
Why do I? - 3/13/2006

I get on line and chat with other boys and I am not wanting anything else but to chat. I am finding it that my boyfriend is not happy with me for doing that. What should I do. I love my man and that will never change.

2 response(s), 5 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
More Advice - 2/17/2006

Doesn't anyone need any advise? I haven't seen anyone new lately.

2 response(s), 4 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Site still not working right!!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2006

I finally got a profile that was viewing me, but it was with a wink. As soon as I deleted the wink, the profile no longer was there in people who were viewing me! I've complained so many times!!!!! The site sent me a profile as a test, but it was with a wink. It showed up, but was gone as soon as I deleted the wink.

1 response(s), 7 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
No views yet!!!!!! - 2/16/2006

I've been on this site for a month, and have yet to have anyone view my profile. My home page still states on it that my profile is pending review. I've e-mailed about 4 complaints to the sirte do far, and have not gotten any kind of a response. I've got profiles on AFF and alt, and they get 200% better results, and I've always gotten a response to any comments or complaints I have made ...

3 response(s), 9 votes