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advent43 67 M
4  questions
Getting more gay by the day... - 11/12/2019

I've been bisexual for 40 years or so. I've loved and enjoyed sexual relations with women, but more and more I find sex with women to be less enjoyable. On the other hand sex with men was nearly always satisfying, but intimacy with a guy was not for me. <br><br> Lately however I feel more turned on by the thought of male male intimacy, deep kissing feeling and holding with a ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
The Beast within - 11/12/2019

Frustrated here as I've not had any luck finding a lover. I've written a concise profile and included my recent photos. I've been exceedingly careful, actually dormant from sexual contact for several years and was recently tested for HIV, which came as no surprise, was negative. <br><br> Despite the fact that I've stated my desire for a monogamous relationship with a ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
Bath houses still exist??? - 9/27/2019

I was recently chatting with a guy on here like me can not host. So I suggested we meet for coffee regardless and that if we were compatible we could figure something . I even suggested the local ABS, but my surprise he indicated a bath house not far from where he lives. I was surprised because I thought that in the wake of STD awareness, they'd pretty much all closed down. ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
advent43 67 M
4  questions
why doesn't GFF allow me to post risque' photos? - 9/27/2019

I attempted post some of my cock shots on here, but they were refused and deleted. I didn't attempt make them my profile photo, so what gives?

0 response(s), 0 votes
DragonMoonHP 53 M
1  question
The Youth of today's LGBT - 6/16/2016

Is it just me, or does the younger gay and lesbian women seem to forget that it was us older folks that marched and worked so hard for them to have the right to sit in front of their electronics and down talk us for being too old?

Now don't get me wrong, it's not all of today's younger generation. However the cliche goes, 1 bad apple spoils the barrel. Maybe if some of these youngsters ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
sexslave64 72 M
1  question
Real Meets - 8/13/2015

I live in South Bend, IN. and would like to know if there are any guys in the area who are into chubbies for occasional hook-ups.

0 response(s), 2 votes
adusei 34 M
1  question
i cant write any message to any one - 4/28/2015

pls i cant message any one

2 response(s), 2 votes
do gay people vanish once they reach 65? - 1/28/2015

where are older gay people

4 response(s), 4 votes
size - 8/29/2012

does a mans get smaller with age, or would it be caused by a medical problem ?

1 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
IT's Your Turn To Write, Don't U Want a Turn ? - 6/4/2012

Hey Guys, It's Your Turn To Share and Write, Don't You Have a Question You Like To Ask ????

3 response(s), 4 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
ARE YOU READY 4 THE HOLIDAY ? - 5/25/2012

I HOPE YOU ALL ARE READY FOR THE HOLIDAY, JUST BE GOOD TO ONE ANOTHER, GIVE THANKS TO THE MEANING OF THE DAY, THANKS AND PRAYERS, ( HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY )

1 response(s), 4 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Did You Know That There are Two FriendFinders - 5/18/2012

I Learn from another Gay Site that There Was Two GayFriendFinders, This One another Own By This Same Company Called Discreet Gay Dating, There are tons of People There all The Time Not Like This Very Slow Site, But They Have Women on This Site as Well, Men Looking For Woman or Couples, and Also Gay Men, Which I don't understand cause it's called Discreet Gay Dating, What does Gay Dating have to ...

2 response(s), 10 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Soon it will Be Summer, Are U Ready 4 it ? - 5/3/2012

Today is Really Muggy, Rainy, Sunny and Very Humid, and it's only 70 Degrees, a Crazy Weather Day, Seem Like This Year Is Going Super Fast, I'm Not a Super Hot Summer Person, I Love it when it's about 70 and 75, But Most People Don't Understand it gets in the 100's here in Fargo, Yes We Have Some Cold Winters, But This Year it was a very Warm Fall and Winter, Do You Like It Warm, Hot, Mild, Cold, ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Profile Is Pending Review ! - 4/24/2012

I Don't Understand GayFriendFinder, They seem to want and need more active and paying members, but somehow they leave you Hanging for no reason other, they don't seem to care, I updated My Profile 3 days ago, it's still listed as ( PROFILE IS PENDING REVIEW ) Who Running This Ship ?, Cause it Seems to be Sinking Fast !

4 response(s), 5 votes
lee4u2 52 M
6  questions
Doesn't anyone use this Anymore ? - 4/15/2012

I seen the last time anyone posted a Question, it was 12-29-11, Doesn't anyone use this anymore or want share what's on their mind ? Remember it takes two or more to relate to one another !

2 response(s), 9 votes
Iceheart 41 M
1  question
Moving to Georgia - 10/20/2011

Can anyone give me any advice about the gay culture in Georgia?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Lcd18 70 M
3  questions
Making out. - 3/3/2011

I'm curious, when should you start making out, after the first meet a greet?, the first

date?and what would lead up to the actual making out?, would it take place in a car or

a motel room?.Responses welcome.

5 response(s), 10 votes
Slow??????? - 1/5/2011

Today is Jan 5, 11. The last question posted was Dec 20th. Don't anyone was this page? Seems with all the men on here you would have a lot of questions. What's wrong???

4 response(s), 9 votes
Lcd18 70 M
3  questions
Can you restart a relationship? - 12/29/2010

I'm straight and was caught by a CD's profile, we found each other attractive.i was nervous and feel that they blew me off, i want to get back in touch again and meet this time and make it work.Has anyone experianced this?How di it go?...

4 response(s), 9 votes
pig4useanytime 60 M
1  question
PNP - 12/23/2010

I have seen it listed many times but, sorry to say, I haven't a clue as to what it means. please help!

3 response(s), 5 votes
Lcd18 70 M
3  questions
Safe Sex Cleansing - 12/15/2010

Before sex do you give or receive an enama from your lover or do you do it yourself?, does the experiance make for a closer

bond between you and your lover? or do you just go at each other with no thought for

safety?

6 response(s), 5 votes
adamLoveOldMan
1  question
why young Boy love Old Man !!! I Love Old Man SO Much But i Cant Know Why!! - 7/26/2010

Young Boy Love Old Man Maybe Because they have more experience and more... and more ... and more.... Oh !! loooooool Nice Old Man I Cant Make Sex without Old Man^__^ Really Fuck all Sex But GOod Sex with Old Man

5 response(s), 22 votes
life4537 50 M
1  question
when you feel love for a man? - 5/2/2010

many men want to have sex with men, sex is an instinct, we all have, but it is no coincidence that many are expressing the need to have sex without feeling "less men" express aggression and a misunderstood role "macho" but still looking men, no doubt believe that the most wonderful thing that can happen is to feel love for a man, I'm biseexual, I was deeply in love with two women in different ...

7 response(s), 28 votes
tristanubod 42 M
1  question
My first experience in sex when i was 12 years old been moslested with my cousin - 3/6/2010

Do you think im i right that experience and trumas make me now bisexual guy.Bec im attracted to a men like me dont choose any races or colors aslong love mein real.

8 response(s), 20 votes
my wish before i get married - 10/10/2009

i have always wanted a group oral orgy so i m asking all you guys anyone intersted i need 5 guys nad lots of cum 44 verse ct here wellhung full lips long thick tounge any takers plz bring doctors papers stating dd free

2 response(s), 15 votes
DOCMIKE16 70 M
2  questions
Were Are All The Bears? - 2/26/2009

I'm a bear looking to make contact with others I have received only one reply. Please let me know if I'm wrong that bears like bears or should I open myself up to others? Are there regular size guys out there that Like chubbier guys? And is this the right site for this kind of thing?

2 response(s), 7 votes
DOCMIKE16 70 M
2  questions
WHAT DO YOU LIKE - 2/26/2009

I was wondering when you do a search/browse for someone, how important is it to you to see a picture? and dose having pictures with the profile get you to read that profile? Also what type of photos do you like to see in the profiles?

6 response(s), 10 votes
bobby8998 60 M
1  question
on date - 6/2/2008

when you are no date and are just start to get in to it he says are cut or no cut me i like both whet wood you do ok by bobby8998

3 response(s), 4 votes
Ollies up from Hybernation - 5/30/2008

After being away from this site for a while its still so dead!! Remember my "Out There!" Comments! At least they got attention and kept this section going! Whats wrong with some guys here, Cat got your tongue????

1 response(s), 3 votes
hornyboy121 34 M
1  question
am i being noticed? - 4/28/2008

..just wanted to get more adds

5 response(s), 19 votes
Please Explain???? - 3/30/2008

I dont like the term used to describe a young person, "TWINK" Where did that word originate from? I hear a lot of people use that word these days. What Gives?

2 response(s), 2 votes
touch47 77 M
1  question
older for younger - 2/14/2008

Why is it so hard to get to know a younger guy. Just because I am 60 I am not dead I love my sex and enjoy very much.

14 response(s), 24 votes
Closets - 2/5/2008

I beleive that Guys who remain in the closet make things harder for all Gay people. If more guys were out! wed have it much easier.

6 response(s), 12 votes
I miss Myrtle Beach sometimes... - 1/24/2008

I've lived in MB a few years of my life, and one of the best things was the porno stores there. You could "preview" a movie and a dude would come in and blow you. It was great, and I did it more often than not while I was drunk.

I live in Greenville, SC, right now and am not finding the same kinda joints around here. I really don't give a shit if you're old or anything, I just like ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
Good Guys Left? - 1/18/2008

Yes is there any good guys left.Me still looking and cann't say i can fine ..So i thought i would ask and see if and were to look and get some help ?So feel free to tell me what i'm doing wrong >

5 response(s), 10 votes
shyguy417 53 M
1  question
love at first sight - 1/10/2008

do you believe in love at first sight i do my last boyfriend and i were together for 2 years and it was a most wonderful time together and even though we are not together now i still believe there is love at first sight what do you think?

4 response(s), 13 votes
Dont understand the fascination? - 1/7/2008

I find Tattoos, body pearcings a real turn off. For younger Guys I can understand but seeing it on a lot of over 40s is quite revolting. Its so Peter Pan syndrome

5 response(s), 14 votes
Are you truly available for in person meets? - 12/31/2007

I am available to meet those in the Lansing area in person to give them the pleasure they desire in every way they choose. I will meet to be used solo or by groups of up to ten. How many others are willing to meet in person?...

0 response(s), 16 votes
Why - 12/28/2007

When I discovered I liked men too, I had sex with my best friend. We tried everything, but everytime he penetrated me it hurt. Is there any thing that can eliminate that problem or help me looser? I need help please. I want 2 enjoy him.

3 response(s), 11 votes
john2494 73 M
1  question
In or out of the closet - 12/23/2007

In some countries or communities many gays are still keep themselves in the closet, while others out.What factors influence these pointsf one's own, family, community, and/or country.How about you or your experiences. ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Nigerian Scam?? - 12/12/2007

Hi guys,

Now I'm getting winks from what seems to be Hot looking young studs from Nigeria and 1 from Rumania.

I'm gussing that these "young Men" are scammers. What with the reputation of scamming Nigeria has. Now maybe Rumainia.

Yep, I'm Very cautious and "paranoid" about gift hunks.

1 response(s), 6 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
What Happened to Manners? - 11/23/2007

One of the main reasons we are all here on this site is to meet and make friends with like minded guys.If we get to gether and take the relationship to another level, that's great, but getting there is a problem.

A lot of guys say "email me" or similar to the effect that they want to meet people and are standard members. As far as I know, standard members can reply to mails recieved. ...

3 response(s), 12 votes
silvabacqbher 77 M
3  questions
Is it me or... - 11/15/2007

As a new member here, I have noticed that compared to the brother site, Outpersonals, there seem to be more people who have posted no photos of any kind here.

Also, I noticed that there is a very high % of guys who have not checked in for "over 3 months"

Has anyone else noticed? Or is it just me??

1 response(s), 8 votes
A Question of Nationality. - 10/17/2007

When your attracted to a Guy, does nationality or skin colour matter or not? If so, what do u like?

5 response(s), 9 votes
Holiday Hot Spots! - 10/8/2007

Have you been to a really nice Holiday destination recently, any remote Tropical Island, Romancing in Paris or trecking around Asia. Were these places Gay friendly or rather Homophobic towards you, maybe they were plain rude. Tell us about your adventures

2 response(s), 3 votes
What is it that attracts you to a man? - 10/7/2007

What attracts you to a man? A nice chiesseled jaw? Colour of hair or eyes? Muscles, boyish looks or charm, perhaps even an older man. Whats the first attribute you notice?

6 response(s), 9 votes
Age of Consent - 10/7/2007

There is always the question of how young it is to experiment with a person of your own Gender. What is the ideal age of consent? What is the age of consent in your part of the world? or teenagers will "Do it" anyway regardless of laws so its not really an issue. What do you think?

5 response(s), 8 votes
The first time you stepped into the scene! - 10/6/2007

When you stepped into a Gay venue e.g. Bar, Club, Cafe, shop etc. For the very first time, How did you feel? Were you, Nervous, excited, Scared, surprised?

2 response(s), 8 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
I WANT YOUR OPINION, REACITONS AND YOUR SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW - 8/25/2007

HELLO TO EVERYONE OUT THERE. I REALLY WANT YOU SPECIAL POINTS OF VIEW ABOUT MY QUESTION. WHY SHOULD I FOR MORE THAN A YEARS AND I AM ALMOST IN 20 YEARS OLD, I NEVER HAVE EXPERIENCE ABOUT HAVING MY LIFE PARTNER EVER SINCE BEFORE. AM I FORBIDDEN TO THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP. SOME SAYS THAT ITS VERY IMPOSSIBLE THAT I NEVER EXPEREINCE YET AND HAVE IT IN MY WHOLE LIFE. I SAID, YES ITS TRUE. I NEVER ...

1 response(s), 6 votes
chasingliberty20 37 M
2  questions
love has no gender - 8/25/2007

WE PEOPLE ARE FREE TO LOVE EVERYTHING BECAUSE LOVE ITSELF IS SOMEWHERE AND CAN BE FOUND TO ANYWHERE AS LONG AS YOU MEET THE PERSON YOU INSPIRED AND YOU FEEL YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH.

DON'T FEEL WORRIEDNESS ABOUT LOVE BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE POWER TO LOVE SOMEONE. LOVE HAS NO GENDER AS I BELIEVE. SO YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE LOVE FOR AND YOU CAN CHOOSE YOU WANT YOU TO BE YOUR LIFE ...

3 response(s), 14 votes
Global Warming? - 8/6/2007

The causes of Global warming are Heterosexuals Breeding and bringing more and more into this world. Its not Car Exhaust fumes we have to worry about!!

2 response(s), 8 votes
I think....... - 7/14/2007

I think Global Warming and Terrorism are nothing but Marketing tools created by western governments.

What do u think!

3 response(s), 6 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
why - 7/12/2007

how did you all decided you were gay.

2 response(s), 7 votes
lonleydi11 37 M
2  questions
what - 7/12/2007

what really makes you gay, if you like to get ordont mind ot get suck but a guy is that really gay?

0 response(s), 1 vote
It Takes Two !! - 6/29/2007

It takes two Hetrosexuals to create One Homosexual. There isnt only one of us in the world, but a few million. Enough to Populate a City as big, if not bigger than New York.

Theres Food for Thought

3 response(s), 6 votes
Thanks GFF - 6/28/2007

Thanx Gayfriendfinder. Its nice to be one of Most Respected Respondents. Its good to be recognised for my Informative Articles !! Cheers

3 response(s), 5 votes
Hi - 5/31/2007

I know this isn't a question, but I just wanted to state that I just added my photo.

3 response(s), 2 votes
I'm confused - 5/31/2007

Why aren't any of you cute, sexy men posting photos? I'm not just talking about your penises, (although I'd like to browse through them also), but of your faces? Is the stigma that bad against us?

4 response(s), 2 votes
HIV+ - 4/23/2007

If your about to go to bed with a guy and then he tells you he is HIV+, what would you do?

If your friend told you he is HIV+ would you still be friends? What would your reaction be?

2 response(s), 6 votes
Liberation - 4/20/2007

When you have too much Liberation and freedom, there ends up being a decline in decency in society. First it was womens lib, the gay lib which was ok but its now gone too far and ruins our reputation, not to mention puts too much demands on the individual. Thats where an increase in Suicides takes place

8 response(s), 8 votes
Older? - 4/20/2007

I find older gay men real irritating in clubs, especially when they try to sleaze onto younger guys. The older guys always complain about being invisible in the Club scene. Really Dinosaurs are extinct!!!!!!

10 response(s), 15 votes
swpa41 55 M
1  question
How can we wake up GayFF - 4/17/2007

Hey guy I was just wondering is there something we can do to liven up this forum a little. I mean there, are times when a week goes by and nobody post anything.

Don’t know how many on this site are on Outpersonal also, the same forum there is used so much you need to check it twice a day sometimes.

Now I hope this site does not get that busy, but please.

Listen I ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
A Question of Education (Part 2) - 4/16/2007

Universally, Gay men are known to be much smarter and high in intellegance,

Why is it that 90% of Prison Populations are made up of Homosexual men, and the most drug users in the world are Homosexual men?

3 response(s), 6 votes
Why? - 4/14/2007

Why is it that youll always find a younger Asian guy with an older Anglo Guy but not the other way around?

0 response(s), 3 votes
Opinion? - 4/8/2007

Is giving an opinion such a crime? Seems like it in these Posting sections

7 response(s), 5 votes
Trying to understand - 4/5/2007

WHAT IS IT WITH THIS SITE THAT THERE IS SO MUCH HATEAND LOT OF BACKSTABING AND LOT OF LYING .ME I'M NEW AT THIS AND REALY DON'T UNDERSTAND IT AS TO WHY SO MUCH ON THIS SITE AND NOT ON THE OTHER SITES HERE.FROM MEFOR

2 response(s), 3 votes
MrCofWi 67 M
1  question
Bi curious? - 3/27/2007

OK ... so if somebody is a total virgin ... let's say the star quarterback of the HS football team ... and all he fantasizes and gets excited about are the young ladies on the cheer leading squad ... would that make him straight-curious? After all, he's never acted on his straight interests. It's just something he thinks about ... a lot.
If that does make him ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
A Question of Education - 3/16/2007

Being University educated is not everything in the world. The more people read books the sillier they come across. Life experience is an Education in itself.

2 response(s), 7 votes
Happy Mardi Gras - 3/6/2007

Hi Everyone.
Last Weekend we had the Mardi Gras here in Sydney, Australia. What a top night it was. Over half a million spectators and almost 100 floats. Its as big as Christmas Day here in Sydney.
What Gay Celebrations do you have in your City? Interested to Know!!

12 response(s), 3 votes
Divorce - 3/6/2007

At the moment theres all the controversy about Gay Marriages

Ok thats great. What about Divorces, they do happen and can really damage an individual. Its all Ok to push for the marriages but what do you do when your faced with divorce? Havent we learned anything from Heterosexuals?

6 response(s), 4 votes
Community? - 3/6/2007

I dont feel that Im really part of what a lot of people would classify as a Gay Community. Im a Human being and am part of the human race. I could never understand this sort of Classification.

7 response(s), 3 votes
nudecowboy 68 M
1  question
is mast.rbation addicting? - 2/17/2007

How much is too much? I mean I take care of my responsibilies, hold down a job, have had a couple relationships too. But I can't wait until I can mast.rbate again on a daily basis. Do any of you feel the same way? I've always thought this was normal behavior. What do you think?

6 response(s), 20 votes
Delicate Problem - 1/26/2007

The last time after my boyfriend fu[kcq]ked me in the \bass\b I couldn't sh[i!1l]t for a week.Would it help if I told him not to stick his big dick so far into my \bass\b? Also does AIDS stand for anal Intercourse Death Sentence?

3 response(s), 12 votes
officeboy007 65 M
1  question
Why is this site pants? - 1/13/2007

There is zero activity & seldom anyone online

2 response(s), 7 votes
disrespect - 1/12/2007

Why is it that Gay Guys are so willing to impress women, copy their behaviours, worship them, yet Gay men treat each other with such disrespect and vileness ???

9 response(s), 5 votes
Little Britain - 1/3/2007

Has anybody seen a Sketch comedy called "Little Britain" Absolutely hilarious it is. Ive bought all 3 seasons plus the live Theatrical show on DVD. Id have to say its the funniest thing apart from all the boring Reality shows on TV at the moment!!

2 response(s), 3 votes
Ziegfried 37 M
1  question
How attractive do you think I am? Just C. - 1/1/2007

Ziegfried...

3 response(s), 10 votes
too restrictive - 12/23/2006

A comment was mentioned earlier on which I found to be very interesting. It was about Mankind and how weve become very separated and extremely materialistic over hundreds of years of civilization.
Were our caveman ancestors more free and non restricted!
Are we imprisoned in this modern world of ours?
I think so!! How about you?

1 response(s), 6 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
What are you looking for.... - 12/21/2006

When it comes to a relationship, what are you looking for? A friend with benefits, a f@#k buddy, a lover, a spouse, something else entirely? What is your ideal of a relationship?

1 response(s), 5 votes
A Question Of Spirituality - 12/13/2006

In the Gay Community I find that lots of men, and women for that matter think they are totally Unbreakable and live purely on Spending, Over indulgence, smoking, drinking etc. What about knowing your true self and being intrigued by the afterlife? In Buddhism, the emphasis is on Meditation and Relaxation. Spirituality is lacking in the Gay Community, I mean theres community church but thats ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
Gay Discrimination. - 12/10/2006

We try so hard to end it in society, we seek to be seen as equals in the eyes of the law and to be treated with fairness and respect. But all too often members of our community are among the worst offenders, whether it's not liking lesbians or queens or what have you. My question is this, how can we expect society to treat us with respect if we can't treat each other in the same way?

9 response(s), 14 votes
Vagueness - 12/5/2006

Guys dont you hate it when you meet up with a guy or potentually want a relationship with him, all you get is vagueness. You dont get an exact Yes or No. I find this a problem in the Gay community. What do you think guys?

2 response(s), 4 votes
All Moral & upright - 12/3/2006

Dont you hate it when guys make themselves out to be all moral and upright, when at the end of the day we all think about it and do it. More like Im a better gay than you are syndrome.

4 response(s), 8 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
movie review.....part one - 11/15/2006

What's the best gay themed movie you've ever seen and why do you like it?

14 response(s), 4 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
Has anyone actually had any luck on this site? - 11/15/2006

I joined this site about a month ago and the total number of times my profile has been viewed since I signed up: 0. Which I don't find unusual because the last time I checked I was the only 'member' from the entire state of Kansas to sign on in the last month. I was wondering if my experience is unique or if someone has actually made some sort of connection on here????

5 response(s), 6 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
How do you feel about open relationships? - 11/9/2006

Can they work or are they a disaster waiting to happen? What's your opinion and why do you feel that way?

2 response(s), 9 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
How do you feel about public displays of affection? - 11/9/2006

If you're dating someone or in a relationship what is acceptable and what is a line you would not cross?

5 response(s), 7 votes
Great web site !!!! - 11/7/2006

Gayfriendfinder.com has been an excellent way for me to get my point across and the chatrooms have been awesome. I am very confident in what I beleive in and like to tell it how it is, no mucking around.

2 response(s), 9 votes
drugs? No Thanks! - 11/5/2006

Whenever I pick up a Gay Newspaper, Im sick of the huge focus that drugs have in the Gay Community. Why take it at all? cant we be just naturally happy in life without any questions? What about us that have never and never will take drugs in our lifetimes, does anybody care about us?

3 response(s), 5 votes
Were not all Hairdressers !!! - 11/2/2006

Dont you hate it how society suddenly stereotypes you as being an effeminite just because your gay,
Were not all hairdressers and designers,
The TV show Queer Eye For The Straight Guy has pretty much given society the impression that thats all we are.
Theres nothing worse when somebody tells you what you should or should not wear.
Especially here in ...

9 response(s), 7 votes
amaninsalina 62 M
7  questions
Closet cases...... - 10/27/2006

I know each of you can come up with individualized excuses as to why you can't be open about your identity, what justification would you offer for everyone else to use? (I should let you know I'm not looking for advice, I'm here to take people on about their answers to this one.)

8 response(s), 9 votes
Have U seduced your relative? - 10/24/2006

Just wondering if anybody out there has had it off/ had a liaison with a relative?
Ive been having it off with my cousin for years, hes a year older th

4 response(s), 1 vote
Whats Your Experiences? - 10/22/2006

Ive been going out on the gay scene on and off for the past 13 years in various cities Ive lived in Australia, in my time. All places are the same. Tacky music, lots of stares and overly camp voices. All guys Ive picked up in my life have been chance encounters. Ive never ever found my "Type" in a Gay Bar or venue. Guys that approach me that I dont want I give them a direct "NO!" If thats ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
Gay scene culture - 10/17/2006

I find that when I go out to the gay scene that majority of guys are after anything, particularly the older men. Personally Im very fussy and particular about my men, why cant guys set some standards out there, esp you older men.

18 response(s), 10 votes
Gay Marriage! - 10/5/2006

Im interested to know peoples general opinions on Gay Marriage. If you and your man were together for a period of time would you consider marriage, do u think marriage is outdated perhaps? Just curious !!

9 response(s), 11 votes
THIS IS FOR she_male24 - 9/21/2006

Hi! I'm davidg3 (my handle). I tried to respond thru your email. You said it's she_male28, right? Well, I keep on getting failure delivery in my email. I'm kinda new with this friendfinder thing, so I just thought of sending you a wink and using this option. I can see from the picture you posted that you're quite a "looker". And I have to be honest with you. Hope you don't ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Headache headache - 8/14/2006

I just arrived Africa, here condition very was really backward, nearly did not have the network, also did not have the gay bar, how could I find other homosexuality?

2 response(s), 5 votes
muguangshun 44 M
2  questions
Why am I sure to like the black? - 8/14/2006

I like the black very much, in particular to their strong body, thick penis

2 response(s), 5 votes
Royce4 56 M
1  question
Heat/Love Bites - 7/13/2006

So I go out the other night to meet a friend at a bar & he blows me off. Anyway, this hot Egyptian guy keeps checking me out, so I am getting rather turned on. We had a drink together….turns out he’s married. Long story short we go back to my apt and do some heavy petting ‒ no sex, . Had an amazing orgasm though ‒ felt like the power of 4. This morning I wake ...

3 response(s), 11 votes
ooty 55 M
1  question
why white guy say asian guy easy to pick up? - 5/9/2006

becouse asian guy always go to the white guy first and offer then self to the white guy

4 response(s), 17 votes
How much am i accepted? - 4/30/2006

I dont know. It seems so hard sometimes. Theres not much difference from gay and lesbian yet i feel like because im a lesbian, its harder for people to accept me.

2 response(s), 18 votes
bluehawk000 40 M
1  question
I WAS CONFUSE??? - 4/30/2006

As i remembered what have happened last month, someone wants to meet me, he told me he likes me so much, he loves me, though he never meet me in persons. we just chat for how many days. That time he decided to fly to philippines to meet me.AFTER on we meet then when he meets me, ohhh we talk know each other, and someone happens to us..to be frank we had sex that time. 2 weeks after i just ...

3 response(s), 16 votes
how many guys like wearing spandex ? - 4/25/2006

like to hear your comments guys

3 response(s), 7 votes
wildman391000 61 M
1  question
lookin g for love , wildman 39 - 4/9/2006

iv been on all theys set here and still cant fine no one to love me here , iam a nice man here , who is just looking for love , so how do you fine love here , some one till me here or fine me man iam here all most 40 still ante got no one in my life here ,

0 response(s), 6 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
why do some people laugh at others - 4/3/2006

sometimes when im with someone new i have this problem of either climaxing really fast or once in a while thing dont stand up to the task, if you know what i mean. Now i have been with some who exploded really fast, within a couple of minutes, that was fine for me, as they finished me off and we both we satisified. however, there have been times when it happened to me and the other party ...

5 response(s), 17 votes
adventurous3434 46 M
1  question
Bi Men - 3/19/2006

How did you first realise you were bi? Was it a certain event in your life that triggered the thought process? With me I was touched up by an older guy when I was 14 and it turned me on but didn't really understand the feelings I was having. I knew I wasn't gay but I knew I wanted to experiment with men. It wasn't until I met my wife that I actually spoke about it (the first person I ...

1 response(s), 22 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Does it work for you? - 3/19/2006

Does this site work for you? I'm a Siler member, and I've complained for months that the "who's viewing me" link does not work for me. I've gotten a number of messages, but not one profile has shown up when I click that link. How can someone send me a message, and not view my profile? After months, the site finally sent me a test profile, and told me they viewed my profile, see my other ...

2 response(s), 11 votes
question about nothing - 3/16/2006

What's goin on with everybody else?

1 response(s), 8 votes
lovableboy 37 M
1  question
where is my true love????????? - 2/27/2006

im looking for a true friend and maybe my first lover ( or maybe my darling ) when i loved u . Now come here and oick me <br> up

2 response(s), 14 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Please view my profile - 2/25/2006

I've had a number of messages sent to me in the couple months I've been on this site, but have had no people who have viewed my profile. I'm trying to figure out how someone can send me a message without viewing my profile.

2 response(s), 17 votes
ahottimeinsepa 62 M
2  questions
problem in bed - 2/22/2006

How do you handle a problem that sometimes happens? Once in a while, i find that my manhood does not stand up to the task at hand, or mouth depending on the situation. Most of the time it has worked out because i was with someone very caring and they handled it well and made me feel okay about it. But there are those out there that end up laughing because i could not get it up. I have ...

3 response(s), 15 votes
age? - 2/17/2006

is it wrong to have a 42 years b/f when i'm 29?

2 response(s), 12 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
More Advice - 2/13/2006

Doesn't anyone need any advise? I haven't seen anyone new lately.

2 response(s), 4 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
Site still not working right!!!!!!!!! - 2/7/2006

I finally got a profile that was viewing me, but it was with a wink. As soon as I deleted the wink, the profile no longer was there in people who were viewing me! I've complained so many times!!!!! The site sent me a profile as a test, but it was with a wink. It showed up, but was gone as soon as I deleted the wink.

1 response(s), 7 votes
Circumcision. - 2/6/2006

Friends. i WAS CIRCUMCISED AT 6 MONTHS, HAVE i MISSED OUT?DOES THE FORESKIN GO TO AND FRO OVER THE PENIS GLANDS DURING MASTURBATION OR DOES IT STAY DRAWN BACK UNTIL THE ERECTION GOES DOWN.

2 response(s), 6 votes
DO YOU PRETEND TO BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT (?) - 1/30/2006

COME - ON GUYS, LETS BE HONEST.? HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S THAT ARE PROFILED ON THIS SITE, LOVE TO SUCK cock.!(?) OK, A LOT OF YOU DO. NOW HOW MANY OF THE GUY'S PROFILED ON THIS SITE - *REALLY* ARE MASTERS AT THEIR CRAFT. REALLY HAVE THE *IRON LUNG* STAMINA AND TECHNIQUE THAT CAN MAKE A GUY HAVE TO BUCKLE HIS SEAT BELT - BECAUSE THIS RIDE IS GOING TO TAKE HIM TO ANOTHER STRATOSPHERE. HOW ...

3 response(s), 8 votes
davea 67 M
5  questions
No views yet!!!!!! - 1/28/2006

I've been on this site for a month, and have yet to have anyone view my profile. My home page still states on it that my profile is pending review. I've e-mailed about 4 complaints to the sirte do far, and have not gotten any kind of a response. I've got profiles on AFF and alt, and they get 200% better results, and I've always gotten a response to any comments or complaints I have made ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
Friends Finder or \bsexo?\b Finder ? - 1/27/2006

I thought that this was a place to hopefully meet new "Friends" . Why does it seem so many are preoccupied with finding \bsexo?\b instead?

3 response(s), 11 votes
pinoy4u 38 M
2  questions
Sexual contact really matters/important? - 1/13/2006

In a certain relationship, would you consider sexual preferences i mean sexual activities really matter so that ur relationship will last or is it a basis for u to commit to a relationship just for that thing?How important is sex to u?

1 response(s), 13 votes
pinoy4u 38 M
2  questions
Right one for ME??? - 1/12/2006

I had only one serious relationship in my past life, im just wondering when i can find the right one for me who will commit a serious long term relationship with me?

0 response(s), 5 votes
New love will he understand?? - 1/6/2006

Right now i just meant a new friend.I was in a bad relationship four years ago.I have'nt told him yet that i just want friendship for now.Will he understand my feelings?I am i right or wrong for wanting this?

1 response(s), 11 votes
Anal with a hot CD vs. A Woman's p#$$y - 1/1/2006

Can you describe why having anal with a hot sexy CD is so much better than having vaginal sex with a regular woman? Give as much detail as possible.

0 response(s), 11 votes
blowngo94 58 M
1  question
last long enough? - 12/27/2005

i have a boy friend who can last all night! i do okay but want to last longer for him what can i do to help me to last longer when i am having sex with the one i love?

2 response(s), 9 votes
salacioussirens 46 M
1  question
Why do I? - 12/22/2005

I get on line and chat with other boys and I am not wanting anything else but to chat. I am finding it that my boyfriend is not happy with me for doing that. What should I do. I love my man and that will never change.

2 response(s), 5 votes
why - 12/9/2005

i have only been on this site for a short time and yes i`am and sandard for now, so i was wondering if i send out winks to get your attention why won`t they at least take a look at my profile so i know that someone is out their instead of just faces and body parts on this site.....

2 response(s), 5 votes
where's the beef????? - 12/6/2005

iowa here, there seems to be a problem with finding big muscle here in iowa. looking for fun and a friend. in the fairfield area. iowa needs to be a little more friendly.

2 response(s), 6 votes
LLBrianGuyz 48 M
1  question
"bugs" in the GFF website - 11/15/2005

This question can apply to everyone, but mostly to Standard Members. Has anyone had some major issues with this site recently? I have found what GFF calls a "bug" and they told me they were werking on it almost 2 weeks ago now. That "bug" is critical to standard members like myself because of the fact that it affects the "Who is viewing me" counter. So far, I have had winks and emails from ...

6 response(s), 13 votes
seaman93555 70 M
1  question
Which side are you on? - 9/24/2005

I fall into the category of totally gay and am very happy with my choices, though, at times it can be very frustrating, lonely, and dangerous. I live in a small very closeted community, though I don't live in the closet. I think those that do, do themselves and our community a disservice. One's sexuality is not governed my rules, as most of us are born with our sexual orientation. It ...

2 response(s), 19 votes
danivon 45 M
3  questions
Why do i always seem to fall for people i know i cant be with? - 9/1/2005

I have got a friend who is absoloutly lovely he is kind, generous, loving just a wonderful person. we are very close and spend quite alot of time together i could really see myself being very very happy with him bar one thing, he's straight why does this always happen to me??? <br> <br> Dani x

7 response(s), 16 votes
up4it4 53 M
1  question
you are very good looking guy i like you - 8/30/2005

hi would you send me a message for some reaso I can not email you though find you very attractive. I am trainee Doctor. I know Older than you but you do have a lovely face and I might b making fool of myself

3 response(s), 19 votes
danivon 45 M
3  questions
how many homosexuals in your family? - 8/15/2005

is there more than 1 homosexuall in your family just wondering about the "it runs in the family/ genes thing?" <br> So far we have 2 openly gay males myself and a cousin, i have an openly bi-sexual cousin and we have one that has not come out yet but has admitted he thinks he might be.....to us. <br> i mean if thats not in the genes what is! <br> i was just ...

3 response(s), 15 votes
danivon 45 M
3  questions
Things you like /hate about yourself? - 8/11/2005

What do you like or hate about yourself???? For me i am really quite happy but for one thing i would love to be heavier than i am for years i have moaned and been quite self concious about my weight, Ok so now i have come to terms with the fact that im slim and no matter what i try will change that its the way i was built but it would be nice to weigh a bit more than i do

4 response(s), 5 votes
Schatzi 57 M
1  question
Has dating become obsolete? - 7/3/2005

I've been single for a little over 2 years after an 8 year monogamous relationship. I found getting back into the single scene after 8 years a very difficult task. The majority of guys that I've met are all into just "hooking-up" and very few want to go out on a date first. Is it just my perception, or has the online sites helped to contribute to the lack of dating and romance in our ...

8 response(s), 21 votes
pretty_sam 37 M
3  questions
My Love letter to All of you! - 6/13/2005

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means you're not a part of it. ...

1 response(s), 13 votes
what is cheating really? - 5/15/2005

I've been in a relationship with the same guy for over 3 years, but I have a tendency to give and receive anonymous oral sex with other men. Since I don't have any type of relations with these guys, it doesn't really click in my head that I'm cheating. I've been thinking alot about this and wonder... Am I a cheater even though it's just head?

3 response(s), 16 votes
little_cutie2 38 M
2  questions
What would make a guy hot or cute? - 5/7/2005

what would be the hottest of a man to be the best and why would that be...

3 response(s), 15 votes
little_cutie2 38 M
2  questions
Does first appearance matter or is it the second ? - 5/7/2005

Your ideal apperance for your first date would be explain as ... exciting or something that was free... which one would you chose first or second

1 response(s), 10 votes
pretty_sam 37 M
3  questions
can i find the right guy for me, even though i am only a gay/shemale? - 4/10/2005

I was born a man but a heart of a woman... i was grown up in the <br> <br> society that more in this criminations about the gays, i live in the country of philippines, i change may image to a woman but im not a transexual gay. i was born at sept. 29, 1986, maybe i am still young but my heart and mind is now matured now especially in the name of love. At this ...

0 response(s), 12 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
Participation is key! - 4/9/2005

I hear alot of boo-hooing about not meeting up with anybody or getting responses, etc. on this site & I find that it's coming from guys that number one have not bothered to post a photo, & number two are not taking full advantage of what the site has to offer. One good way of getting attention is through Blogs, Blogs are good because you can post a new one every day or every week, etc. & ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
hasand 40 M
3  questions
Crushes - 4/8/2005

How many of you guys have had high-school crushes on another guy, but were too afraid to tell them? For me, there's only been one guy, on which to this day, I still have a maddening crush on.

1 response(s), 6 votes
hasand 40 M
3  questions
coming out - 3/29/2005

does anybody have any advice that i could use for coming out to my family. i know each family is different, and numerous factors could influence their reaction. some of my friends already know about my sexual preference, but i don't know what my family will think. i don't know if i'll ever feel comfortable telling them.

0 response(s), 4 votes
hasand 40 M
3  questions
image over personality - 3/25/2005

how many guys out there consider a person's personality before their outward image...at first glance. if he didn't have runway-model looks, would you still consider asking him on a date, or would you simply dismiss him and move on, not even bothering to get to know him. just kinda curious is all. <br> <br> p.s. my shift key doesn't work.

4 response(s), 11 votes
pretty_sam 37 M
3  questions
hello its pretty me sam: (interesting question) - 3/23/2005

hello people over there. My name is Sam, my only question is about if the older man is ideal to have a younger man like me? I am seeking here a serious, and long term-relationship w/ an older guy, is there something wrong w/ that? Thats all...God Blesses Us -pretty_sam

3 response(s), 6 votes
Paul_G 64 M
1  question
Sex & health - 3/21/2005

Just a word of advise. The AIDS/HIV crisis isn't over so be careful. <br> I say this because I am surprised atthe muber of people that want to top them and then the y say nothing about condoms and some say oh please do not use one . <br> I will foever more use a condom unless I'm in a relationship for like twenty years and I totally trust my partner and we have had ...

0 response(s), 11 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#3 - 3/18/2005

You guys that post fake or copyrighted photos on your profile, don't bother because the photo police are out there! GOOD JOB with yet another catch & fix GFF! Keep up the good work keeping it honest & keeping it real!

1 response(s), 10 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
View Only Listings With Photos... - 3/15/2005

You guys get your photos uploaded! Some guys won't even view profiles without photos, it's a fact! Some of you don't have photos & you wonder why you don't get browsed or have "bites" as you put it. Not having a photo on your profile is part of the reason I guarantee it!

1 response(s), 8 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
Our Boy Alex.....? - 3/13/2005

Where has our favorite question boy ___Alex___ gone? I ask to see "more" of him & some of you agree, then suddenly he is gone! The suspense is killing me, I am waiting for more! Alex where are you? COME BACK! And when you do will you reveal yourself... take off at least a little bit?

0 response(s), 2 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE#2 - 3/12/2005

The GFF Network must have caught up with "unchulin" & noticed he was using a copyrighted picture & removed it because now his profile has no picture. Good work GFF! Let's keep it honest & let's keep it real!

0 response(s), 1 vote
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE UPDATE - 3/10/2005

The person using using the picture of actor Josh Hartnett as his profile picture is "unchulin" (that's his handle) let's all put in a request to this ----- (fill in word of choice) to use a picture of himself or no picture at all! Isn't honesty the best policy? If you want to post celebrity pictures you can use your private photo albums but your profile picture should be one of you! Like I ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
POSTING PROFILE PICTURES OF SOMEONE ELSE - 3/4/2005

This is more a request than a question... if you're going to bother to post a picture or pictures on your profile make sure that the pictures are of you & not some celebrity or some picture you have downloaded from some porn site or an Abercrombie catalogue. Some jerk on this site has actually posted a picture of Josh Hartnett (the actor) as his profile picture! It's the black & white one ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
Self-Centered Guys Attractive? - 2/19/2005

Are any of you guys attracted to those guys who are really stuck on themselves? I have dated a number of guys that have model-looks & 2 of them were long-term, & I have found that for the most part they thought they were great guys based on the way they looked. The sad reality was that most of them really were just good looking jerks! Anybody had the same experience?

0 response(s), 10 votes
anaheimbadboy2 54 M
9  questions
Requesting Nudies From Alex - 2/18/2005

I think our question boy Alex is a hottie! I would like to see "more" of him! Anyone agree? So, Alex... what do you think?

0 response(s), 14 votes
jim696998 80 M
1  question
Am I wrong to want committment? - 2/15/2005

For years I have been trying to find the right man to share my life with and so far I have come close but still no wedding band. I am going to continue as long as I can but maybe someone has some advice on this subject

2 response(s), 3 votes
YQTB2000 44 M
1  question
I want to try bottom - 2/10/2005

I always been top, but i want to try bottom. The thing is that i tried and i used a lot of lube but it hurt as hell. Do u guys know how i can do it with out feeling as much pain.

3 response(s), 8 votes
quite18 39 M
1  question
Why Can't we all just get along? - 12/10/2003

Why do we always have to fight with one another, Can't we just get along. After all christmas is just around the corner. So before you go taking the last can of green beans out of the old ladys basket right next too you remember Its christmas time. Get along with others this season.

1 response(s), 1 vote
Mind_Maturity 41 M
1  question
how should I deal with Her?! - 9/15/2003

It all started with meeting that girl , she was really a nice one , but she started asking me whether I do have a girlfriend or not , To be honest i had to lie to her and say Yes , not beacuse i wanted to push her away but i really didn't want her more than a friend. She was really nice to me , and insisted everytime we meet to talk about our future together, one time I couldn't bear that ...

1 response(s), 0 votes